So as I get older, I am realizing a few things. Actually, many things. I am realizing I am far more patient and tend to let the little things go. I am keenly aware of how quickly my children are growing and how I will never get these days back. They do indeed move at warp speed the older we get. I cherish sneaking into their rooms at night and whispering words of encouragement in their ears. I look past the dirt on my walls and try very hard to give my children a present mommy. I don’t always succeed. But I give it my best effort day in and day out. I am also deeply thankful for my husband and the love that we share. To say we are a team is an understatement. We are fortunate to be able to spend quality time with one another daily and not a day goes by that I am not cognizant of how blessed we are. But there is something else I a noticing as I get older. I am aging. Ha. I am seeing signs here and there that this body aint what it used to be. And while I am okay with that, I am also relying on some things to help me feel my best. I have been asked many time what my work out routine is or how I stay healthy. I am not about to say I know anything about any of it. At all. I just thought it was time to share what keeps me feeling my best. And maybe, just maybe, you might find something new to try. And I would LOVE for you to leave a comment at the end of this letting all of us know what keeps you feeling young. So here they are in no particular order! w a t e r I am a water drinker. Truly. With the exception of loving red wine, I only drink water. I never drink soda or juices. I think water is key in keeping the skin hydrated and for overall health. I also think it helps with clear skin. If you are not crazy about water, maybe add a few slices of fresh fruit. I often keep a pretty pitcher of ice water on the counter {it makes me feel like I am at a high end spa} so that I am reminded to drink it all day long. I also like that my kiddos have been exposed to us drinking water nonstop. My son can’t get enough of it. p a s s i o n via Passion. Passion about life, the people you share it with, and what you do. I can not begin to express how fortunate I feel to be able to share my thoughts and ideas with readers via this blog. I am crazy passionate about this blog. Everything from brainstorming ideas to capturing it in photos. I love every single aspect of it and each day I am excited to get up and tackle some aspect of the blog. I am a worker bee by nature. So it suits me very well. In the end, I am able to do what I find beauty in. That makes me feel energized every day. What are you passionate about? Have you found it? t a n n e r Tanner. Yep. That’s right. No lengthy explanation needed. I feel younger when I have a bronzed tone. If you ever need a quick pick me up, give it at try. And let me tell you. It has the power of hiding many imperfections. I’ll take it. s t r e n g t h via Along the lines of finding your passion, I think we all need a way to feel strong. Mine is kick boxing. I began kick boxing in my early 20s and have been doing it ever since. I even taught classes for a while and trained in an all male gym. Yep. I may be little, but I am mighty! I have a standing boxing bag in my garage and can use it anytime. I have failed as of late in doing it regularly. But let me say this. I have definitely worked my way through some major grief over the last couple of years. There is no better feeling than getting out some aggression and frustration on a boxing bag. It makes me feel strong. What makes you feel strong? q u a l i t y t i m e via Almost every night, my husband and I sit on the front porch and download our days. We talk about anything and everything and savor the time to just be us. We have always believed in an early and consistent bedtime for our children which is why we are able to do this. A glass of red wine and some real conversation can be such a relaxing way to end the day. It also helps me put the craziness of my day in check and helps me to reprioritize. c o n s i s t e n c y via I go to sleep at the same time every night. I know that not everyone can do this based on your family’s schedules, but I do think that it plays a huge role in how I feel. I think the consistency has helped my quality of sleep. I am also able to fall asleep much faster because my body is so used to going to sleep at the same time each night. What are your sleep habits? k e e p i t n a t u r a l {unedited photo. . . crow’s feet and all. In all fairness . . it was good lighting!} Wrinkles. I wish they weren’t a reality. Having said that, I do try to remind myself that each time I look in the mirror at my smile lines and crows feet that they are here from years of living. It’s not a bad thing. But I am just as vain as the next girl and complain about them all the time. I use Laura Mercier tinted moisturizer. It is super lightweight and has built in sunscreen. Mac Love Nectar lip gloss is my all time favorite. I tend to gravitate towards the natural look. I use Neutrogena Foaming Face Wash each day and always go to bed with a clean face. g o o d f o o d via I am no health nut. I do not count calories nor am I crazy about what I eat. I love food. My husband and I go on weekly date nights and adore trying new restaurants. But here is the deal, I am always aware that food is nourishment. Your body needs to be fueled correctly. I have just always had that mind set. So if I blow it at lunch time with foods that are not good for me, I reign it in the rest of the day. We sit down to dinner as a family every single night and try very hard to make sure it’s a well balanced, healthy meal. I find that just not brining too much junk food into the house makes life much easier. Do you eat well? i n t h e e n d . . . Isn’t this the truth. Having lost my own brother way too young, I am all to aware of how lucky I am to be growing older. I don’t have any secrets to keeping us all looking young, I do however, know that these things in my life keep me FEELING young and alive and invigorated. What’s on your list? What do you do on a regular basis that keeps you feeling young and excited about life?
Caley-Jade Rosenberg says
Such great tips – and you are ageing beautifully x
René says
Such great advice Courtney! I agree with you 100% about all of it. And yes, bronzer can make all the difference ;).
marty (A Stroll Thru Life) says
A genuine smile is always the prettiest face whether on a 90 year old or a new born. The inner beauty is what most of us remember.
Liz Gaxiola says
Is the perfect post for me, 'cause today it's my birthday and I feel this way
Michelle {Rodan + Fields} says
Beautifully written ~ Water and sleep is key, but the inner beauty is what shines through no matter what our age!
Jennifer Jones says
I always love your outlook on life, and loved reading your secrets for staying so beautiful and youthful!
Leslie Moore says
I feel like I've watched you grow up….. But wait, I have!! You are so beautiful, both inside and out. Love you sweet friend❤️
Megan // Honey We're Home says
Such a good post Courtney! I love how you and your hubby sit outside at the end of the day and enjoy some quality time. I'm curious what your bedtime is- I was up tip 3am last night! Ug!
Simply LKJ says
Fabulous outlook Courtney! Love the last sentiment.
Love CompassionateLee says
Great advice. Happy Wednesday, Courtney 🙂
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{Hi Sugarplum!} says
Great post — and gorgeous pic of you both! You look like kids to me! xo
Glamista Home says
Such a great post. It takes courage to accept self as we are and to enjoy who we have become. Thank you for sharing your positive thoughts.
Sarah Parker says
Great post Courtney! I'm exactly the same with the water. If it's not a glass of wine in the evening or a mug of coffee in the morning, the only thing I drink is water. Since my skin is too sensitive for any harsh retin-a type creams, I've stuck to using sunscreen every. single. day. and I think that ounce of protection is worth a pound of cure. xx, Sarah
natasha {schue love} says
OH I love this! Especially the idea about spending qt with Ryan at the end of the day. We so need to be better about that! By the time we make dinner, get Ethan bathed and whatever else, we're pooped and I zone out on my blog and he zones out on tv. Eep! Such good ideas! You should totally do a "day in the life" post…would love to read that and get more inspired!
Allison says
Wonderful post Courtney!! I, too, am a water drinker. I love water. I don't drink soda or juices. I have my coffee in the morning and water the rest of the day. I do like green tea every so often. I agree with all of your thoughts and tips on aging, I do enjoy my yoga and look forward to my quiet time each morning to spend a few minutes writing in my gratitude journal. I've found it to be a great way to start my day, put a smile on my face and face whatever the day brings in a positive frame of mind. I love this last quote Courtney and so very true. Having lost my mom and my best friend way too young I try to accept the lines and wrinkles as a gift that many others do not have the opportunity to experience. As my mom used to say each line and wrinkle tells a story. I am going to pick up your bronzer tomorrow. My skin could use a little boost right now! Thank you for writing this post. Beautiful thoughts and tips and beautifully written. You are an inspiration to me with your positive and down to earth outlook and approach to life. xo
Freckles Chick says
You are so down-to-earth & so naturally gorge. Your whole fam is. I don't have much time to read blogs these days but I made a mental note to read this so here I am 😉 I looked in the mirror not too long ago & was shocked at how things don't seem to be as tight/bright/light as they used to be, even though I'm the most content I've ever been in life. Funny how that works. Thanks for sharing your little secrets!
xoxo
Becky {This Is Happiness} says
Such great tips! Whatever you're doing it's working…you look great!! Love you're outlook on aging as well 🙂
Nicole says
Thank you for this post. It's nice to see just real advice that isn't expensive, outrageous. I follow many of the same habits that you do (although that whole working out thing? Yeah – need to be better about that).